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Entitlement Is The Enemy of Success 

We’ve got one week left of March Madness, and I wish I could just talk about all the excitement. But honestly, the tournament’s joy and energy have been hijacked by the transfer portal. And that brings us right back to last week’s topic—entitlement.

For the record, I lean hard toward loyalty. So this stuff really hits me. I get the economics of it all, but I’ll never understand wanting something you haven’t earned. Demanding a role you’re not qualified for or haven’t worked hard enough to deserve? That mindset is toxic. Entitlement poisons success, weakens drive, and damages relationships. It’s a false belief that we deserve something just because we want it—without putting in the effort.

Entitlement is the enemy of progress. It’s the illusion of earning without actually earning. And here’s the thing—when entitlement is high, gratitude is low. And you know how I feel about gratitude.

The people who build something real, who achieve greatness, reject entitlement at all costs. Success isn’t about handouts—it’s about effort, attitude, and choices. That’s what shapes our future, not excuses.

When we focus on what we have instead of what we think we deserve, we start seeing opportunities instead of obstacles.

Maybe I’m going a little overboard here, but if this is the hill to die on, so be it.

Success isn’t given—it’s earned. Life doesn’t owe us shit. And if there’s one thing I’d want on my gravestone, it’s this: “Creg was anti-entitlement “

#ExpectSuccess,

Creg

March Madness 

Good morning, ExpectSuccess Tribe!

I love March Madness because it gives me so much to think about.

Not many people become truly great. And the ones who do? They don’t get there because they believe they’re already exceptional. It’s actually the opposite—they become great because they’re obsessed with getting better. That obsession comes from knowing they aren’t great yet. They don’t feel entitled to success. They understand they’re just average right now, but they have the potential to be so much more. And that belief? That’s what fuels the fire.

So what’s the lesson? We all have the ability to be great. But are we obsessed with becoming the best we can be? Do we reject entitlement? I love that mindset—nothing is handed to us. There’s a price to pay, but the reward is limitless.

#ExpectSuccess,

-Creg

March Madness & Toughness

March Madness is here, and you hear a lot of coach talk. I grew up with it—my dad was a coach. One thing all great coaches talk about is toughness. But what is toughness, really?

Toughness isn’t something you’re born with. It’s not a talent. It’s a skill—one that’s built over time. And the truth is, very few people truly have it. A lot of people talk about being tough, but only a few actually live it every single day.

The toughest people wake up ready to fight. They hold themselves to a standard. They make a choice—over and over again—not to quit, no matter what. They don’t even let the thought of quitting enter their minds. And because of that, they lift up everyone around them. That’s why the best coaches win year after year—they’ve mastered toughness and know how to teach it.

Most people can be tough for a little while. But can you sustain it? Can you block out distractions, focus on what’s right in front of you, and push through until winning is the only option? That’s real toughness. It lasts. It stands the test of time. The toughest people always find a way to land on their feet. Sure, they face setbacks, but quitting is never an option for them—because not quitting is a skill. And like any skill, toughness can be learned.

The truth? Most people won’t develop this skill because it takes daily commitment. That’s why, when you meet someone who is truly tough, you know it right away. They’re different.

If I could teach my kids one thing, it would be toughness.

So, where do you stand on the toughness scale? Be honest. It’s not just a word—it’s a way of life.

#ExpectSuccess,

-Creg

What do you do when you're not at your best?

You know those days when you just don’t have it? Honestly, today feels like one of those days for me. I’ve been struggling to find the right message, work has been challenging, and shoulder rehab has been frustrating—it’s wearing me out. So, what do you do when you feel like this?

This week, I went to a U of I basketball practice. At the start, the players looked sluggish. But they had a coaching staff to push them—and trust me, they did. Some days, I wish I had someone like that to push me, to hold me accountable. Because these tough days? They’re the ones that define success or failure. The easy days take care of themselves. It’s the hard days when no one would notice if you slacked off, that really matter. We’ve talked about the process before, and today, I’m being tested.

Earlier this year, my good friend John Schumacher asked me what a successful year would look like. I have financial goals, but that wasn’t my answer. I told him my year would be a success if I got this message out every Friday for the entire year. That would prove to myself that I can stick to a process—even on days like today when I just don’t feel like it.

And here we are. The message is out, and I showed up. Now, I’m putting my big-boy pants on and finishing the day strong.

We all have days like this. Don’t let the tough ones define you—you define them. Acknowledge the struggle, fight through it, and remember that these moments are temporary. When the day is over, take pride in the fact that you didn’t quit. Look yourself in the mirror and appreciate that you turned a tough day into a win.

#ExpectSuccess,

-Creg